My name is Nathan Beasley, I'm from Melbourne, Australia. I'm 29 years old. I love cats and snow boarding. I have one sibling(a younger sister) and my parents divorced at the beginning of my teenage years. Boring you yet? Well here's where it gets interesting. Interesting in the way that turns heads, begs question from some, though dumbfounds most. The next thing I'm about to disclose is what separates me from many, yet unites me with others. I AM A DRUG ADDICT, I AM PROUD OF BEING A DRUG ADDICT AND WILL ALWAYS BE AN ADDICT. Before judging me, I would like to state that I take full responsibility for any of my using, behaviour and actions whilst an active addict.
Many people scoff and turn their noses up when they hear me state that I am proud to be an addict? Why on Earth would someone be proud of using an illegal substance, or in my case substances, that are responsible for inflicting so much pain to so many different walks of life. Not to mention the countless innocent people we as addicts manage to drag into our storm we so much love dancing with. A Super Storm actually. All very fair questions by the way. In fact, a person who is not an addict, or hasn't been directly or indirectly impacted by an active addict, would understandably find these questions necessary and common sense. Even partners and family of an addict would be in their right to ask such questions. Non addicts simply will never fully understand why I am proud to be an addict, how could they?
And so here lies the reason why I choose to share my personal journey, if not to show the addict still using there's nothing to be embarrassed/ashamed about admitting we have a problem; and if not to instil courage in the addict still using to make the necessary decision to seek help(a lot of addicts spend years at this cross road simply because of the stigma around attending a Rehab Facility); but at very least, by speaking out, I believe by sharing my journey, I'm taking the first steps to help give non addicts a better understanding. Speaking publicly about Addiction by sharing personal stories, experiences and knowledge, I believe, is a great way to start breaking the world wide stigma around Addiction, so more of society have a better understanding, therefore allowing addicts to feel safe, comfortable and free of the fear of being judged, so to out themselves as addicts and make use of the ever growing resources available that can guide them back to their intended path on life's journey.
The only difference between drug addicts/alcoholics and other more "socially accepted" addicts is what fuels the individuals addiction. Myself personally, I was a drug addict and what the industry calls a "poly user". Poly is a prefix meaning "many", so like addiction doesn't discriminate, I didn't discriminate drugs, including Alcohol. A person addicted to alcohol, is an Alcoholic. Many great and successful individuals have succumbed to a drug or alcohol addiction, many more have not. Look at it like this....leaders of countries , politicians and corporate CEO's, a lot of them are addicts. Difference being though is they are extremely dedicated to their work. They work long hours. They've most likely spent years working their way up, furthering qualifications to get to where they are, therefore they fill their addict void with work. Think of great sportspeople, who have to be highly dedicated and sacrifice many things to get to the top of their chosen sport. A lot are addicts, but choose to fill their addict void with their sport, training and etc. Other addicts like myself, for too many different reasons to mention, filled our addict void with a drug or drink.
Upon making the brave decision to enter a rehab, by admitting I have a problem, and taking the first steps back towards my life's intended journey, I am now armed with the necessary weapons and ammunition to stay drug/alcohol free, and live life on life's terms. Getting clean and sober allows me to now start filling my addict void with more useful stuff, positive stuff. Knowledge that will benefit me in whatever direction my journey takes me.
If you've managed to stick it out and weave through my rabble, I thank you. If only one person feels a little more motivated to change, or if even only one person now has a slightly better understanding of addicts or addiction my choice to share about my experiences humbly and honestly was the right one.
To stray away from the normal "flipping" of others articles in to my Flipboard magazine, theres no time like the present to write and share some of my own material. Included is a video I made whilst an In-Patient at Bayside Private Rehab Facility. I was in my first week, about 6/7 days clean. Last week got 1 year up! My life today now has purpose. 13 months ago I was a Plumber, living wage to wage and spending all my money on alcohol, drugs and material things. Today, I'm now fulfilling my dream in helping others. I work in a Rehab Facility, I am studying AOD+Mental Health. I have savings, and can still do the things I enjoy most. Surely I'm dreaming..... No wait....
I'm changing my whole life.
